Whats in a name?

I've been tagged by a couple friends to do this post, so I better get it done. It was to write about how you came up with your children's names. So here's a little background. I've been coming up with names for my daughters since elementary school. I had a little yellow piece of paper in my desk where I would write them. At the top of my list was ALEKSEIA. I came up with it when I was 12 years old. I was watching the 1996 Atlanta Olympics and my favorite male gymnast, Aleksei Namovth (SP) was competing. He was Russian. So I decided I wanted to name my daughter Alekseia, after him. Of course the first time I hung out at Wayne's house I saw a picture of his niece and nephews, and his niece's name was Alexia. I remember thinking, "Dang it, if I marry this guy I won't get to use my favorite name". Don't worry, I have another use for my favorite name, it will just have to wait. It was a price I had to pay to marry THE MOST AMAZING GUY in the WORLD! Well worth it.

So now to Kaelyn. For the longest time I couldn't remember where I came up with it. It has been our number one name for a few years. Then it came to me after I was tagged for this post. When I was in College I was a nanny for a 15 year old girl and a 12 year old boy. It was the best job ever! We just hung out every day and I trucked them to all their soccer practices and games. One of the girls good friends at the time was Caitlin. Also at the same time I was coaching club volleyball and there was a girl that played for our club named Kayla. I love that name, I still think about using it for a daughter but then I have to remind myself that its way to close to Kaelyn. So one day I was sitting in a college class doodling my future children's names (does anyone else do that?) and I combined the two names. Kaelyn - Pronounced Kaelyn, NOT Kae-Lyn. I figure if we wanted people to say it right we should have spelled it with an I, but I just thought a Y was more feminine.

Kaelyn's middle name is Ruth, after my Grandma Ruth. She is the most amazing person I know. A little story about how we decided to use her name. March 11 we went in for our 20 week ultrasound. That is when we found out that Kaelyn had a heart defect, fluid on her brain, was measuring small for her age and most likely had something genetic going on like Trisomy 21, 18 or 13. That whole experience completely caught us off guard and was one of the hardest days...up to that point...we had ever experienced. I could barely talk on the phone to tell my mom what we found out, my heart was broken. I had seen Grandma Ruth a few days before and told her that I would be calling her to let her know if we were having a boy or girl. Of course after all that I didn't feel like talking to anyone. I found out later that while my Grandma was working in the temple, at the very moment we were in the hospital, she had a strong impression that something was wrong and put our names on the prayer role. After a few days and me never calling her she started to get really worried. My dad came over to visit her and she told him that she knew something was wrong and that she wanted to know what it was. It was just so comforting to know that Heavenly Father was watching out for us and got the prayers rolling right off by letting Grandma know we needed help. After I heard that story and had talked to my Grandma, I knew we needed to use Ruth as Kaelyn's middle name.

Then a few weeks after Kaelyn was born I looked up the meaning of her name. It is "Pure Friendship". I thought that was just perfect for our little girl. Already at 4 months old her life has brought more friends to us than we could have ever imagined. Thank you all for your support and love. We are forever changed by your kindness.